A lot of people aren’t bad at talking—they just kill the conversation the moment they open their mouth. My most-used lifesaver is to have ChatGPT, Claude, and Gemini build the “topic stepping stones” for me first, then use Midjourney to make a funny but safe image as the opener.
Move the topic away from yourself
Cai Kangyong has a very practical point: use less “me me me,” and let the topic stay more on the other person. You can directly throw this line to ChatGPT or Claude: Rewrite the following self-introduction into a question-style opener that sounds less self-absorbed, and it will automatically help you turn it into a version that’s easier for others to respond to.
If you can’t keep the convo going, talking about food really works
Following the “talk about food” approach, the easiest way is to use Gemini to generate a topic tree: Give me 10 follow-up questions that branch out from city, food, and taste preferences. The advantages: it’s safe, easy to keep going, and unlikely to step on landmines.


